Autonomy is foundational in Traditional Wicca. Unlike religions with centralized hierarchies, we have no “pope” but follow clear occult laws and guidelines within a loosely structured framework. This balance allows covens to operate independently, guided by deeply held principles rather than rigid control.
In our practice, a coven should be a space of growth, learning, and respect—not a clique. Priesthood is not meant to police other circles or impose personal agendas. Handling genuine cases of abuse is entirely different from enforcing unnecessary control or fostering exclusion. Our traditions hold protocols for addressing abuse outlined in our sacred texts, ensuring such situations are handled with integrity and care.
Unfortunately, issues can arise when individuals misuse authority, attempting to force others into narrow roles that don’t align with their personal growth or spirit. This “badge-heavy” mindset, in which some try to reshape others to fit arbitrary standards, is often a root of power abuse. Such dynamics stifle authenticity and breed discord, especially if imposed both before and after initiation.
As practitioners, it’s essential to recognize our individuality, especially when encountering overbearing leaders or elders. Witches gather not to mirror one another but to celebrate our uniqueness. I did not come to Wicca to “fit in” or seek social acceptance. My purpose here is to train, to grow personally, and to inspire others to do the same. My journey in Wicca is one of spiritual growth and honoring the Gods—not conforming to trivial social standards or enduring exclusion for superficial reasons.
My commitment is steadfast: my heart serves the Gods, and my soul is bound to the initiatory path. I am a Witch, committed to fostering my own peace and practicing in the way that resonates with my truth, whether in a coven or as a solitary practitioner. My devotion to the Gods guides me, and I am willing to endure challenges in pursuit of wisdom. However, I will not tolerate distrust or mistreatment within the Craft.
Perfect Love and Perfect Trust are not just ideals—they are essentials for group practice. Without them, community devolves into chaos. For a coven to flourish, it must be rooted in mutual respect and shared purpose, honoring the spirit of each member and the sanctity of the path we walk together.